Healing, the Love It Show, and 2011

  Let’s step into a time machine and come out on the other side in 2011 to the sounds of Justin Timberlake… and the stomp of about 40 pairs of feet dancing on a fitness center floor. That’s where I spent a lot of my time in 2010 and 2011 […]

Rape Culture and Boys Being Boys

  I have a very important post up at Mamalode today. I’d love it if you would go and read it. True change in the rape culture will not come from women.  It will come from men. I have hope… Please visit Mamalode today and read BOYS    

The 60 Seconds I Forgot To Tell You About.

  I walked briskly away from  the hotel bellman toward the end of the driveway.  His directions were simple, ”At the end of the driveway, walk down the little staircase and cut across the alley real quick.  You’ll see the restaurant on the corner. Can’t miss it.  I could throw a […]

The Anniversary Not Uncelebrated

  Every year around this time I celebrate a sort of anniversary.  On the 29th of May many years ago, I suffered a traumatizing and life changing experience.  Each year since then, I have celebrated being alive somehow by going to amusement parks, spas, or anything that makes me feel […]

Rape Culture, and a New Generation Of Boys Rising

    In the wake of the Steubenville High School students who were convicted of raping a sixteen year old girl, the internet has bounced me from blog to blog, from article to article… I’m overloaded, and raw, and thoughtful, and angry, and strangely stirred. The internet is on fire […]